3 things Men can’t resist
1) A woman who smiles. (More powerful than you might realize)
A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the “wrong impression” they frequently guard their smiles. While that approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the message of being someone who is overly cautious.
In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need.....
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posted by The Relationship Doctor at
12:55 PM
8 Comments:
Those things all are important -- as long as the man appreciates them and comments positively on it !
Hi Bob, I need your help with one question I have.
My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago today after him blowing hot and cold for a couple of weeks.
We talked and it was clear that he felt we didn't have a future. He was trying to get me to end it. I think this is because he hates being disliked or hated by anyone.
We talked and he said he wanted to call back the next night and talk more. He also wanted to come spend the weekend with me. e was very upset.
I was so devastated and sat awake all night. I wrote him an email saying that if he wanted me out of his life then to leave me alone. Not to call me the next night and not to come spend the weekend with me. I told him if he had respect for me never to talk to me again.
He has respected my wishes. My problem is I regret saying that so much. How can I wait for him to call if I know he never will because I asked him not to? In this situation, should I call him after a few weeks? We still have unfinished business and I really want to use your advice to try to save this relationship.
Hope
Annie,
It isn't about being fair, it's about what works. Don't expect a man to comment positively when you do one or more of these. The goal is to frequently practice them so that you will consistently make men feel good in your presence.
Trust me, men LOVE these three things and if done often will induce emotionally dependence!
Hope,
Yes I am sure you know I would have suggested going about it a little differently. In addition, I believe your situation is one that I need to speak with you, directly. I also am wondering if you are having trouble fully accepting what you have read in "How Do I Get Him Back." While a week is a long time, it isn't to a man.
The short answer is that you probably don't want to do anything now anyway because it hasn't been long enough.
I will say this though, please stop emailing and calling him. I don't think you're planning on doing that any more, but just in case.
Also, please schedule your Free 15-minute coaching session with me so that I can give you more details. I would look forward to helping you with this crisis very much.
Bob
Dear Bob,
Thank you for your advice. I have no plans to email or call him. Yes it hasn't been long enough. Although this week feels more like a year :)
I have scheduled my coaching session with you, look forward to you helpful advice.
Hope
Hi Bob, I need your help with my situation. My boyfriend and I lived together for 6 months, and hit some pretty tough financial issues which made us argue more than I would like, I'm more mouthy and he's silent. He decided that he wanted to move back to N.C. from California to start a home business stating that he wanted this to work for the both of us. I didn't know how to tell him I didn't want him to go so closer to the time he was to leave, I picked arguments about irrelevant things pertaining to his move. On the day he was to leave, I was so overwhelmed with fear about losing him, that I was totally hysterical (not common for me at all) crying, and ranting and said "I don't want to be with you anymore"! But I did not mean a single word! He pulled out of the driveway and left. This was last Sunday May 20, and although we have had very minimal conversation through text, he now will not return my calls, or initiate conversation.
I really love him and don't want it to be over but it has now been a little over a week and I'm not sure what to think of this silence. Is this his way to say it's over? I'm really hurt and confused and just want it to be okay.
I am afraid what you are asking is more complicated that I can advise you in a blog.
Even if you have handled the break up the wrong way, and it sounds like you did (sorry), there still might be hope.
First things first, to truly be helpful to you I or some other professional in your area need to know more information about you, him and you situation before a specific plan can be created for you.
Yes, I think you might benefit from my book, "How to Get Him Back," but I say that with a word of caution. Don't buy it unless you're going to schedule your FREE 15-minute coaching session that comes with it. Even those 15 minutes may not be enough, but at least I can guide you through the first 8 weeks of this break up (the most critical time).
I enjoy reading your blog entries- thanks!
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