Monday, April 23, 2007

Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back (Secret ingredient)

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I must admit that I have been pleasantly surprised at the popularity of "How Do I Get Him Back." I knew there was a need but I didn't know how great it was until now. While many women have taken advantage of my FREE 15-minute coaching session, some have not and have emailed me that after a "few days" the plan isn't working for them.

It appears that some women are hoping to find a magical phrase that they can say to their ex which will cause him to come running back into their arms, instantly. I can tell you the only phrase that will come close to that is, "I will have sex with you whenever you want, without you having to commit to me." That doesn't sound too appealing does it?

If you are one of these women I need to tell you something. I know you don't want to hear this but the truth of the matter is that it's going to take TIME to win your ex back. I cannot tell you how many women give into their fears and impulsively end up doing the very things I warn tell them not to do (ie. sending an email, letter, emotional phone call, etc..).

How much time you ask? Usually between 2 and 6 weeks. Sometimes less and sometimes more because words are not as effective on men as they are on women. Words only work when the right phrase is said at the perfect time. I want make certain that their ex FEELs as well has hears their words. I don't like to leave anything to chance.

For those who aren't sure what they should do, I've created a FREE report to help women identify if they are making any of the mistakes that drive men off. This way you can decide if the man you want back is worth the effort.

Wishing you the Relationship of Your Dreams!

Bob Grant, L.P.C. "The Relationship Doctor"

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Monday, October 23, 2006

Newest Book, "How to Get Him Back"

I'm in the middle of my newest book, "How to Get Him Back." I think I know what women want to hear which is simply, "what do I need to do to get him back together with me." The biggest problem I am having is trying to find the formula that will work for everyone.
I think I've got it, but until it's actually being read by readers you never truly know. I guess, I'll just have to go by the results I have seen by my clients. I must admit, it is nice to have clients to verify new insights before I write about it. I know that most authors don't have this luxury. I'll give you a small insight from the book, which should be available at the first of 2007.
When trying to get a man back, it is imperative that a woman avoid any argument with him. All that does is reinforce whatever fears he already has about the relationship. Unfortunately many women believe that avoiding arguing is the same as avoiding conflict and it isn't.

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