Emotional Dependency - Men Love It

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Whenever you hear the word “dependency,” most of us think in terms of some form of addiction or disease. It tends to imply something that should be avoided, fixed, or terminated. Most individuals with dependencies are those with addictive personalities, and thus rely on others to meet their needs and fulfill their responsibilities. Not the type of person you want to be in a relationship with, or aspire to become.


What if I told you that making a man emotionally dependent on you was a good thing? In fact, what if.... click here to read more.

50 Universal Truths About Men

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Here is a list of characteristics that nearly every man believes, but few ever verbalize.

1. Why should I remind you that “I love you?” I already told you once.

2. I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.

3. I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise.

4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.

5. When you speak softly, I can’t help but listen.

6. I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.

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Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back (Secret ingredient)

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I must admit that I have been pleasantly surprised at the popularity of "How Do I Get Him Back." I knew there was a need but I didn't know how great it was until now. While many women have taken advantage of my FREE 15-minute coaching session, some have not and have emailed me that after a "few days" the plan isn't working for them.

It appears that some women are hoping to find a magical phrase that they can say to their ex which will cause him to come running back into their arms, instantly. I can tell you the only phrase that will come close to that is, "I will have sex with you whenever you want, without you having to commit to me." That doesn't sound too appealing does it?

If you are one of these women I need to tell you something. I know you don't want to hear this but the truth of the matter is that it's going to take TIME to win your ex back. I cannot tell you how many women give into their fears and impulsively end up doing the very things I warn tell them not to do (ie. sending an email, letter, emotional phone call, etc..).

How much time you ask? Usually between 2 and 6 weeks. Sometimes less and sometimes more because words are not as effective on men as they are on women. Words only work when the right phrase is said at the perfect time. I want make certain that their ex FEELs as well has hears their words. I don't like to leave anything to chance.

For those who aren't sure what they should do, I've created a FREE report to help women identify if they are making any of the mistakes that drive men off. This way you can decide if the man you want back is worth the effort.

Wishing you the Relationship of Your Dreams!

Bob Grant, L.P.C. "The Relationship Doctor"

It's the little hunches that are most accurate

About a year ago I read a fabulous book called, "Blink." I've observed how often trusting your gut turns out to be true and here was a book that explained why. I went to Grad School and learned all the counseling theory, but I keep coming back to intuition, especially when it comes to women. The trick is always helping them distinguish between intuition and intensity. It is the subtle impressions that a woman gets early on in a relationship, that don't scream at her, that are the most often true. Those feelings that scream are often true...And distorted......and somewhat false.
Here's an example. If a woman goes on a date and the guy only talks about himself and she has this feeling that he might be a little selfish, I'd tell her to pay attention to that feeling. It isn't screaming at her, therefore I trust it. Just like in an argument, if you have to scream, your point isn't that strong. If on the other hand, her date talks about himself the entire date and she has a terrible sinking feeling in her stomach, I'd be inclined to suggest she give him another date. Why? Because her reaction is disproportionate to what he did. Something is going on in her mind that has nothing to do with her date. That kind of reaction is often misleading, even though it is intense.
I know, I know, it's not the kind of dating tips women like to hear, but they work.
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Power and Surrender

I see this problem often. How women (men too) long for a confident and powerful man who is sensitive to their feelings. Most men are good at doing one or the other and I have heard numerous stories of how frustrating that is to women because during dating most men can do both. Why can't they do both all of the time????

The short answer is because it's really hard to combine both of these traits. What I suggest to women a more accurate understanding of men and what they REALLY want. Having a man who is strong and attentive makes him a father. Fathers maintain this balance with their daughters (at least they are suppose to) because they don't need their daughters for emotional support (again, they are not suppose to). What really is a female turn on is a man/guy of power that will periodically allow a woman/girl to get her way.

I've had women say how much they longed for a guy who would pamper them with money and attention. Then they meet a wonderful man and within 3 or 4 dates they suddenly seem to find him BORING. I have told as many men as will listen that women crave a man's strength. There is no substitute for a man who knows what he wants AND is attentive, AT TIMES. Men that can master this balance of power will find they will never lack for female attention.

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