Emotional Dependency - Men Love It

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Whenever you hear the word “dependency,” most of us think in terms of some form of addiction or disease. It tends to imply something that should be avoided, fixed, or terminated. Most individuals with dependencies are those with addictive personalities, and thus rely on others to meet their needs and fulfill their responsibilities. Not the type of person you want to be in a relationship with, or aspire to become.


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You Don't Have to be Perfect

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What do men really want in a woman?

After years of listening to women in my private practice, many seem to think that men expect nothing less than perfection. If you were to visit some popular men’s websites such as; askmen.com or maximum.com you would certainly think that unless a woman is both highly attractive and incredibly accommodating, that men have no interest. This is not really accurate. At least not in the way you might think.

I often illustrate this to women by asking this question:

“If you had a choice between two men and everything about them was exactly the same, with the exception of one being worth millions and one being poor, who would you prefer? Would you select the wealthy one, or the one who was poor?”

You Know the Answer: If they were equal in all other aspects, most women state that they would choose the wealthy gentleman. I mean, why not if everything else is equal?

Now when men hear this some are likely to say, “That’s right, all a woman cares about is a guy who makes a lot of money.” In fact, that conclusion would be incorrect. A man would be wrong to assume that just because a woman likes the characteristic of a man with money that she cannot love a man unless he is wealthy. In fact, most women I speak with tell me this, “It isn’t that he has to make a certain amount, but I would like to know that he has the potential to make enough for me to feel comfortable.” In fact, most women are willing and/or expect to help out financially.

This same standard applies to men. If given the choice between.... To continue reading Click Here

3 things Men can’t resist

1) A woman who smiles. (More powerful than you might realize)

A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the “wrong impression” they frequently guard their smiles. While that approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the message of being someone who is overly cautious.

In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need.....

Power and Surrender

I see this problem often. How women (men too) long for a confident and powerful man who is sensitive to their feelings. Most men are good at doing one or the other and I have heard numerous stories of how frustrating that is to women because during dating most men can do both. Why can't they do both all of the time????

The short answer is because it's really hard to combine both of these traits. What I suggest to women a more accurate understanding of men and what they REALLY want. Having a man who is strong and attentive makes him a father. Fathers maintain this balance with their daughters (at least they are suppose to) because they don't need their daughters for emotional support (again, they are not suppose to). What really is a female turn on is a man/guy of power that will periodically allow a woman/girl to get her way.

I've had women say how much they longed for a guy who would pamper them with money and attention. Then they meet a wonderful man and within 3 or 4 dates they suddenly seem to find him BORING. I have told as many men as will listen that women crave a man's strength. There is no substitute for a man who knows what he wants AND is attentive, AT TIMES. Men that can master this balance of power will find they will never lack for female attention.

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