Is Your Fear of Commitment Holding You Back?
In my counseling practice, I often work with clients who have a deep fear of commitment. These individuals generally say that they want to be in a loving relationship, yet they keep picking “the wrong people.”
Someone like Allison who sought my help because she was in two relationships that she admitted wasn’t good for her in the long term. While it was hard, she realized that it was time for her to make a choice.
3 Turnoffs That Make A Man Pull Away
Of all the questions I get from women around the world about men, these are the most common.
“Why can’t I get a guy to notice me?”
“What did I do wrong that made him not interested in being more than friends?”
What usually fol…
Is Your Boyfriend Having Doubts About The Relationship? What To Say When He Has Them
You’ve been dating a great guy for about nine months now and things seem to be going very well. You are attracted to him, enjoy hanging out, and can see a great future ahead. All is well… until he tells you that he’s having doubts about …
Living together before Marriage???
This topic has been debated since the dawn of Women’s liberation. What’s sad is that usually the argument is only between those who say it is and isn’t morally wrong. Nothing wrong with that discussion but there is more to this question …
First Date Magic for Women
At least once a month, one of my clients will come into my office upset about how her date went the previous weekend. Either she feels she did something wrong or worries that the guy didn’t seem to be too interested in her.
3 Reasons He Hasn’t Asked You Out Again
You’ve just had the “perfect” date… then wondered why he never asked you out again? You seemed to have such a great connection. You had fun. He seemed to have a good time as well. Yet he never called you again. What went wrong? This scen…
Three First-Date Guidelines For a Better Experience
Contrary to popular belief, the priority on a first date should be more about not making a mistake rather than making a good impression.
Face it, the very fact that a guy asks you for a date means that you have already made a good imp…
He Never Knew What CommitMEANT
Why do men struggle with commitment?
This question about the tendency in men to find it hard to commit seems to surface over and over again from women all around the world. If I could identify in a few simple strokes of the keyboard on …
What Not To Do If Your Partner Leaves You and You Want Another Chance
As a therapist, I regularly counsel women who are suffering from a broken heart. They tearfully tell me how much they want to save their relationship and yet their fear often causes them to focus on getting their man back, no matter what…
Playing Games In Dating Is Not Manipulation — Sometimes Playing Games is Good
Many women ask me how they can get what they want without “playing games.” The idea of not directly telling a man exactly what they want (ie. “I want a relationship”), when they want to tell him, appears to be somehow disingenuous to som…
