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May 1, 2014

Are You Making These 4 Huge Dating Mistakes?

Do you get tired of the whole dating “thing”? Do you get sick of superficial coffee meetings with “Potentials”? It’s not just you! The dating scene doesn’t work. So don’t take it personally. You are set up to fail before you even show up. The “dating system” is flawed, period.
April 10, 2014

You Don’t Have To Try So Hard

by Bob Grant In the 16 years that I’ve been doing relationship counseling, I’ve rarely come across a female client to whom I’ve had to say, “Try harder” when it comes to relationship building.  In fact, most of my female clients try so …
April 10, 2014

The Secret To Understanding Men

Do you know the most common concern I hear from women who come to me for relationship counseling? It can be summed up in 6 words:
November 19, 2013

What Men Need To Live A Happy Life

I found this article that was fascinating. It’s a study conducted over several decades regarding what makes men happy and fulfilled. I offer this to you so that you’ll have a better understanding of the man you love…or will love. Su…
October 11, 2013

How Do I Know If He’s Interested?

Hey Bob….How Do I Know If He’s Interested? Forget trying to read his mind or look for whether he turns a certain way. To be honest, being a real master at reading body language takes years to perfect. Surely you don’t want t…
October 8, 2013

Sorry, He Doesn’t Like Drama

by Bob Grant I know what you feel when you think he isn’t listening. It’s like you just want to shake him and unscrew the top of his head so you can look inside to figure out exactly what he’s thinking. Even when you tell him that he’s …
September 25, 2013

His First Impression Of You & What He Wants You To Know

When you first see the guy you’ve always wanted to meet, your heart starts racing. Every thought in your head starts spinning faster and faster as you wonder, “Does he even notice me?” I understand why you’re nervous. That’s why I get…
September 11, 2013

How He Really Sees You

I know it may seem like I’m often telling women that they don’t have to be stunningly beautiful, pencil thin and always positive.  Some of my clients have slyly suggested that I’m simply being nice (like something their mother would tell…
September 2, 2013

How Guys Really See You

So I’m surfing the internet and come across this.  Tell me what’s your first reaction? Honestly, what did you think when you saw the guy with his hands in the air as proud as a peacock? Here’s why this is important for you, it’s not that…
August 23, 2013

“He’s Got Issues!”

I spoke with a client recently and just looking at her….she’s very attractive, gets lots of offers from men. Yet, she can’t find that one man she wants to spend her life with. The latest guy said something that screamed in her head, “i…

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