by Claudia Cox
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Avoid the biggest mistakes
what they think and want
How To Get Him Back
Ladies, has this ever happened to you or someone you know?
You meet a great guy. You start dating and your relationship goes well over the first few weeks or months. You’re convinced he’s definitely into you — maybe even in love with you. Suddenly, just when you start thinking he’s Mr. Right, he loses interest in you and begins to pull away.
You’re left with nothing but questions:
What did I do wrong?
What’s wrong with him?
How can I get him back?
Can I get him back, or is it too late?
What are the reasons why men leave? It’s NOT what you think.
What went wrong?
Why did he leave? That’s often the toughest part, not knowing why he pulled away, or what you did.
It’s easy to spend all your time replaying in your mind over and over what happened during your last conversation or encounter with him, looking for clues as to what might have led to your breakup. What should you have done or said — and what should you not have done or said? You say to yourself, “If only I could understand why he left me, I could fix it.”
And if it wasn’t you, was it him? What’s wrong with him? Does he have intimacy or commitment issues? You’re left feeling hurt and heart-broken, wondering if you should take action, or if this is going to be “the one that got away.”
Here’s the real problem. Men don’t react the same way women do. They don’t think the same way women do.
You can’t understand a man by thinking like a woman.
Get him back before it’s too late
To get him back, you have to understand how men think and how to find a way into his heart. Many of the things you naturally want to do will actually push him further away.
How to Get Him Back has proven, specific steps you can take to get him back and make your relationship even better than before. These steps have worked for women just like you. They are virtually guaranteed to work.
Discover the three reasons why men leave and how to prevent it from happening to you.
Find out what to do and what NOT to do to get your guy back.
Don’t wait until your man has moved on in his life without you and shut you out of his heart forever. You must strike while the iron’s hot. Learn these truths now before it’s too late.
What you think you should do and why it’s going to backfire on you
I’ve worked with so many women who right after a breakup feel these things….
I must call him
I must write him
If I can only give him something
If I could just tell him how I feel
If I could just get him to talk about how he feels
If only he could understand me
If only I could understand him
While it’s understandable for them to feel this way, the problem is that they are focusing on trying to fix the wrong things. Those things are what would be effective on another women and by doing what they think he needs – their best efforts often end up completely backfiring.
Take the following test :
If a man with whom you’ve recently had a good relationship suddenly loses interest in you — and you sense that he’s beginning to pull away from you — which of the following frequently used strategies do you think is the best thing you can do to get him back? Check one.
|A. Write him a letter (expressing your heartfelt emotions, reminding him of all the good times you’ve had together, what you think went wrong in your relationship, ways to make your relationship better, etc.)|
|B. Call him on the phone, tell him how you feel — and get him to open up and talk about his feelings|
|C. Give him gifts and shower him with sweetness and love — so he’ll realize what he’s missing by not having you in his life|
|D. Call him and say, “No one will ever love you as much as I do.”|
The correct answer is – None of the above!
I know this sounds counter-intuitive, but I know from years of client counseling and personal experience your natural instincts can be your worst enemy. The very things you think will bring him closer to you may actually push him farther away. Don’t make these mistakes!
Get Him Back will show you
- The reasons why a man suddenly loses interest in having a relationship with you, even if he was previously very much into you
- The Number 1 mistake women make when trying to get their man back
- What three things you do that will drive him away again
- If he calls, what to say and what NOT to say
- What men crave
- The Right and wrong way to approach your ex
- The First 3 months – what to do when ”getting back together”
You can get him back! And don’t just return to normal, transform your old relationship into everything it can be.
My step-by-step game plan — including techniques that have been used for centuries to rekindle relationships. This irresistible game plan is virtually guaranteed to soften your ex-boyfriend’s (or ex-husband’s) heart and create a deeper bond between the two of you that paves the way to re-establishing your relationship.
I’ll even reveal to you my word-for-word script — 9 incredibly powerful words you can say to your man that will make him realize he simply couldn’t bear to lose you!
Susan hung up the phone in disbelief at what she had just heard. Stan said he didn’t see a future with her and decided to end their 5 month
old relationship. The shock of hearing those words overwhelmed her and
left her feeling helpless. 2 days later, she found “How Do I Get Him Back” while searching for answers online. She was hesitant to get her hopes up, but upon seeing the money-back guarantee she decided to give her relationship one last try.
While the advice seemed counter-intuitive, she faithfully followed it to the letter. 5 weeks later she was shocked when Stan called her. His voice was softer and he awkwardly asked if they could meet and 3 weeks later they were back together.
Why does my advice work when so many others fail?
My name is Bob Grant. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach with 17 years of successful practice. I’m also the author of the popular book, The Woman Men Adore … And Never Want to Leave (2005).
People call me “The Relationship Doctor” because I have the prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships that have lost their spark.
The majority of my clients are women — and one of the top relationship problems they’ve brought to my attention is this: The man in their life has lost interest in them and they want to know how to get him back.
Luckily, I have an effective remedy based not only on real-life feedback from hundreds of my real-life female clients, but also from time-tested strategies and techniques I’ve developed over the years which, when properly implemented, are most difficult for a man to resist!
Most other relationship advice fails because what works on women does not work on men.
I bring a man’s perspective to relationships. I know how men think and I can show you how what you want is often not what he wants.
Relationship Books that are not Gender-Specific —
Books that give generic advice for both men and women seeking to rekindle relationships with their ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend are seldom effective because, as I’ve pointed out above, what works on women does not work on men — and vice versa. Most available resources tend to be tilted in favor of helping men get their woman back.
Books, Magazine Articles or Relationship Advice Based on Trickery and Artifice —
Far too many books, magazine articles and relationship advisers show you how to “trick” a man into submission by using all sorts of artifice — and of course, the old stand-by, sex. In my opinion, these do more harm than good. Trickery could work in the short-term, and it may help you get your man back temporarily, but it won’t enable you to sustain the relationship — you’re likely to lose your man again down the line because the device used to get him back was based on shallow motivations instead of a deep understanding of men.
Advice Given by Untrained or Inexperienced Relationship Coaches —
There’s been a recent proliferation of “relationship coaches” who, after having completed a mere 12 to 48 hours of life coach training, masquerade as relationship experts. When you take advice from such untrained people who resort to guesswork instead of extensive real-life experience, you run the risk of making critical mistakes that could jeopardize your chances of ever getting your man back.
So now that you know what not to do, what should you do?
My private relationship counseling practice has enabled me to develop powerful strategies for helping couples rekindle relationships — including a step-by-step game plan to help women get their man back. I truly want to share this game plan with more than just the clients who are able to travel to my office in Georgia to sit down with me face-to-face. I also want to help those who can’t afford my counseling services ($295/session).
So I devised a way that will enable you to gain immediate access to my game plan, and let you benefit from my experience without you having to shell out hundreds of dollars in hourly fees — and without leaving the comfort of your own home or office.
The Woman Men Adore And Never Want to Leave
What if you knew how to captivate a man, make him fall in love with you, and give you everything you desire? Sound too good to be true? It’s not.
When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying? (Check the ones that apply to you.)
“Why didn’t he call?”
“How can I find the right man?”
“Why won’t he commit?”
“Why doesn’t he love me anymore?”
“What am I doing wrong?”
“Why do other women attract men like flies”
“If only I could understand men….”
You can understand men. You can win their hearts. The good news is, they want you to. Nearly every man I talked with deeply wants to get married. He wants to adore you!
Get what you want from a man
Some women seem to cast spells over men. Men just seem captivated by them. It’s not magic. What do they know that you don’t? Here’s a hint. It’s not that they are more attractive or more intelligent than you.
My name is Bob Grant. I’ve been a clinically trained Professional Life Coach for over 17 years. The majority of my clients are women . I’ve found that women have a greater intent and ability to influence men than vice- versa. You simply need to understand how he thinks and what he wants. Once you know that, it’s easy to get what you want.
The methods I’m about to share with you are based on real-life feedback from those who have tried my relationship advice and found that it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.
“When I found myself single again after being divorced in 1999, I dove into a series of relationships with men that started out strong, but eventually fizzled out. I didn’t know what I was doing wrong. I’ve read dozens of relationship books, but
The Woman Men Adore Program is the first one that really made me understand men — and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes and never wants to part with.
I only wish I had known about Bob’s proven method years ago. I could have had less heartaches and more fulfilling and enduring relationships. And I might have saved my marriage as well. This program is mandatory for all women!”
— Maria V., Beverly Hills, California
What signals are you sending to men?
Excerpt from The Woman Men Adore –
“I couldn’t put my finger on it, but somehow I knew there was a reason this woman had trouble. I couldn’t describe it to anyone, but it was a feeling I had; a feeling that there was something she was doing – and was probably unaware of – that kept retarding her best efforts. There always seemed to be an “aura” or “vibe” around her, and I’m sure I wasn’t the only man who noticed it. Even though she was pretty, smart, and fun to be around. I couldn’t quite pinpoint what it was that made me feel a little uncomfortable in her presence.”
One evening at a party, it suddenly hit me!” (read the rest in the Woman Men Adore program)
There are specific things women do that keep men from wanting to be with them and commit to them. Many times women are completely unaware of signals they are sending. I work with women to determine what they are unconsciously saying to men, and how to change that to send the signal they want.
For example – What signal is the number one male repellent? It’s if he feels you don’t need him. Men want and need to be needed. Here’s another insight women find invaluable…
Why he wants to fix your problems when you just want to talk
The reason why men shut down when they feel like they can’t fix your problem isn’t because they feel your pain, it’s because they feel it too much!
The reason a man tries to fix a woman’s problem is because it hurts him to see her in pain, and he wants to rectify that situation and take her pain away as quickly as possible, a process that actually takes away his pain, too. When a woman says, “I just want you to listen,” what a man hears is that she wants him to sit there and let her describe details of how someone hurt her, while he’s expected to empathize with that. It feels like she is asking him to sit there and watch someone beat her.
There is a way you can share your problems and feelings with him and get the response you want. I’ll show you how in The Woman Men Adore e-book.
In the Woman Men Adore Program
* How to hypnotize a man into feeling safe with you.
* The part of your body that serves as a strong elixir, which men want to be held captive to. No, it’s not your breasts, legs or derrière. Use this part of your body to the hilt and you’ll have him wrapped around your little finger.
* Shouting/pouting/acting pitiful won’t work – it won’t get his attention, but THIS will.
* What’s the number one problems couples face? Infidelity? Poor communication? No- something else, it’s a proven relationship killer. Learn what it is and how to avoid it.
* The reason why new relationships fail. It may have nothing to do with your new relationship and everything to do with old relationship. Learn how to grieve and heal so you’re really ready to move forward with an open heart.
* 5 things men crave that women don’t know about — Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a man than these — and if you give them to him, you’ll have his undying devotion.
* The main reason why men choose to get married (or stay married) to a particular woman. This can be summed up in 5 words. Carve these words in your heart and never forget them.
* Why some women drive away good men or continually pick losers – How to tell the difference between impulses and feelings so that you’ll never again allow the intensity of impulses guide you to a poor choice in men.
* How to be yourself and still be loved by a man – I’ll show you how to find the courage to be imperfect and be loved in spite of it — and teach you how to remove the “layers’ that keep a man from knowing and loving you.
You CAN be the woman men adore
Excerpt from Woman Men Adore e-book:
“When you and I were children, we didn’t know the meaning of the word “impossible.” Children have an innate ability to believe in things, just because they can imagine them. Some call this childlike faith. Sad to say, when we grow up, we begin to think that maybe dreams don’t come true, and we prepare ourselves for pain. We encounter disappointments, and soon we view the disappointments as reality, rather than steps toward our dreams. Once an adult stops believing that dreams can come true, every adversity becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. ” (page 39)
If there’s one thing I would like for you to take away from this, it’s that you can be happy. You can find a man who loves and adores you. I see it all the time. Clients who’ve given up suddenly do find true love.
Armed with your guidance and insight, this is all so much better and less painful than in the past. Thank you so much for what you wrote- it has boosted my confidence so much.”
“I can’t believe it happened just like you said. You told me not to give up and he just proposed last weekend! I knew something was up but this caught me completely by surprise!”