There are 2 things most women don’t understand about men.
1) Men fall in love differently than women
and
2) Love happens for them in STAGES
Once you understand that simple truth… you will never wonder again why suddenly a man turns distant… cold… or breaks up with you.
The one simple insight led me down a rabbit hole of research… into the physiology… brain patterns…and deep psychology… of how men tick and why they bond to some women but not others.
in the relationship, only to see it come to an end — usually with a broken heart or a lot of pain.
Once you understand that simple truth… you will never wonder again why suddenly a man turns distant… cold… or breaks up with you.
The one simple insight led me down a rabbit hole of research… into the physiology… brain patterns…and deep psychology… of how men tick and why they bond to some women but not others.
in the relationship, only to see it come to an end — usually with a broken heart or a lot of pain.
1: Men Have Stages of Bonding
They don’t truly fall in love… and devote themselves to a woman until they progress and go through… Each. And. Every. Stage… In order.
Anytime a man breaks up with a woman… ghosts her… drags on in a relationship… and refuses to commit…
Or even cheats on her…
It’s because they have NOT truly gone through the “Bonding Stages”.
I’ve seen this in marriages gone wrong… and I’ve seen it in engagements that last forever.
Until the man truly bonds with a woman… there is no devotion… no loyalty…No commitment.
Even if they say “I love you”… or “I want to spend my life with you.”
Many of them think they’re in love…
When they haven’t gone through all the stages.
And they end up breaking up with women… thinking they’ve “fallen out of love”…
When really, they haven’t truly bonded.
Remember—
Men are just not in touch with their feelings… much less the deeply seated “Bonding Stages” going on in their brain…
2: There are Five Stages of Bonding for a Man. Five.
The first two are adrenaline-based infatuation.
It’s exciting. It’s fun. They can’t keep their hands off of you.
They love chasing you. And many even go so far as to say “I love you.” But unfortunately, they’re not in love. Even if they think they mean it…
Even if they believe it from the bottom of their heart. You see… these early stages of bonding is all heat and no glue.
What’s Worse… Is a Lot of Women Believe
the Man.
“He said the L-word, didn’t he?”
And what happens is… the relationship loops in these first two stages for a while…
But eventually… every relationship has to move to…
3: Stage Three is Where the Man Hits a Roadblock.
Stage three is where the man comes down from his high. Stage three is where the man starts to… doubt.
He doubts himself… He doubts the relationship… He doubts even the woman. He wonders if you’re really “the one”… even if they’ve already said “I love you.”
And it is at this exact point that… the woman has her golden chance to use this doubt to create a deep and lifelong bond.
You see… stage 3 of the man’s bonding stages is interesting.
They honestly don’t know what’s going on.
You may recall… when I talked to Sherry’s boyfriend he couldn’t put a finger on why he couldn’t commit.
It was because…he was in stage 3.
And this is where so many women innocently try and help a man…the wrong way.
Stage 3 is a fragile, delicate time in a relationship. 98% of women don’t know what to do here.
If you’ve ever complained about not knowing what guys are thinking… and why they’re “acting this way”… it’s most likely you have a man in “Stage 3”.
This is the Stage where they start acting out.
Like not answering your calls or texts as quickly…
Or picking fights over the dumbest things…
They may even say things they “regret” later.
The one tip you must take from this…
If anything… is that it’s NOT YOU.
There’s nothing about you to fix. You can’t “become better”. You can’t “be more”. Giving more is useless.
All men hit stage 3 eventually and pull away from the relationship. Some more dramatically than others. However — there are things you can do.
So if you carefully guide him over this stage 3 hump and into stages four and five… you will have helped him transition from the adrenaline-based infatuation of the early stages to the more solid, sticky…
TRUE BONDING… Based on Endorphins
It is in stage four that a man begins to truly bond with a woman.
He needs your help in stage 3… because he wants a long-term, committed relationship with you… where he has deeply with bonded to you… When he can finally rest from his long search to find you.
And once a man get’s past Stage 3 and 4 then….he’s ALL yours as he settles into Stage 5 – The Bonding Stage.
Want to know how to use The Bonding Stages so draw a man closer, even when he has doubts?
Like not answering your calls or texts as quickly…
Or picking fights over the dumbest things…
They may even say things they “regret” later.
The one tip you must take from this…
If anything… is that it’s NOT YOU.
There’s nothing about you to fix. You can’t “become better”. You can’t “be more”. Giving more is useless.
All men hit stage 3 eventually and pull away from the relationship. Some more dramatically than others. However — there are things you can do.
So if you carefully guide him over this stage 3 hump and into stages four and five… you will have helped him transition from the adrenaline-based infatuation of the early stages to the more solid, sticky…
TRUE BONDING… Based on Endorphins
It is in stage four that a man begins to truly bond with a woman.
He needs your help in stage 3… because he wants a long-term, committed relationship with you… where he has deeply with bonded to you… When he can finally rest from his long search to find you.
Inside This Course I’ll Show You…
Exactly what each of the 5 bonding stages are and how to spot each of them in a man…
Plus what to do if they “loop” inside stage 3 and how to get them past it.
Not knowing which stage your man is in is the #1 mistake women make that can seriously mess up what could’ve been an amazing relationship.
I’ll also reveal…
What it really means when a man says “I love you” during the adrenaline-based stages 1 and 2… and why it’s so damaging to believe him. It’s not that he doesnt mean it. He truly believes what he is saying… but he’s not really in love with you the same way you may be with them.
But most importantly I’ll talk about why every man must go through stage 3 in order to truly bond with you… and how ignoring this can lead to breakups, divorce, cheating… or worse.
And more importantly… the 3 “death sentences” that can irreversibly end any chance of your man bonding to you. DO NOT say them during Stage 3… under any circumstances.
Next, you’ll discover…
The real reasons why good boyfriends or husbands suddenly show up late… delay returning calls… listen less often… forget promises… and “check out”… even if they’ve already bonded to you!
The #1 mistake nearly all women make that literally blocks a man from ever moving past Stage 3… stunting the relationship… leading to a slow decline and loveless relationship.
How to quickly detect and get rid of toxic men. Men who are forever stuck in stages 1 and 2 and can never bond with any woman. Avoid these men. Period.
And much, much more…
This is Just a Small Sample of What’s
Inside…
This course based on my lifelong work… which gives you the exact tools and techniques…
The “trigger words”…
The “phrases”…
The questions…
That nudges your man from one “Bonding Stage” to the next…so that he’s obsessed, devoted, and feels a wave of love every time he thinks of you… all the while thinking – it was his idea.
If You’re Reading This Right Now
I Know One Thing About You
Whether you’re between relationships and find yourself repeating the same patterns (Like Sherry did)… or you’ve been in a relationship or marriage for many years…
SOMETHING’S not working in your love life…
And here’s what I tell all my new clients:
In your heart, you know what an intimate relationship should feel like and the fact you’re reading this tells me… you’re ready to have that experience.
But I want to be sure this is what you really want.
Are you ready to have X-ray vision into a man’s heart and soul? To know what Bonding Stage they’re in… and how you can “shift” them from one stage to the next… simply by saying a few words at the right stage?
Are you ready to change how men respond to you?
Most importantly— Are you ready for the one chapter of your life to FINALLY be written where that strong secure man takes your hand— and never let’s go?
Where you’re not repeating the same patterns… and men treat you with respect?
Because if your answer to these questions is yes…
Then I’d Like to Invite You to be a Part of a Small, Private Test Group… For my “Bonding Stages: How Men Fall In Love” Program…
As I had mentioned already… I currently charge over $400 a session for my private clients…
Most of my clients… on average… see me for nine or ten sessions… investing $3,600 on themselves.
What I’ve done with my program is put these ten sessions into 5 online modules. You can watch them anywhere… whenever you want.
In other words… you’d get the exact same content they would… but you wouldn’t need to fly to Atlanta.
