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Author: Bob Grant, L.P.C.

Bob Grant is a Clinically Trained Relationship Expert who’s been working with women for over since 1997. He helps women create successful, satisfying, and fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men. Click here to learn more about Bob.
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The Best Relationship Goals For Any Relationship

What are the top goals you want in your relationship?

Many people have different opinions about what the goals or rules of a relationship should be.

But, when looking for a relationship, you want to find someone who sees how amazing you are and adds value to the life you already have. You want to find someone who helps you be a better version of yourself.

So what exactly does the phrase ‘relationship goals’ actually mean?

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Men Dont Expect Perfect But They Want Authentic

Perfect Is Overrated…I promise. Men don’t need a woman to be flawless to be attracted to her.

After years of listening to women in my private practice, many women seem to think that men expect nothing less than perfection. If you were to visit some popular men’s websites such as; (www.askmen.com) or (www.maximum.com) you would

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21 Ways To Rekindle the Romance

Long-term relationships bring about many benefits, such as comfort, security, companionship, and always knowing there’s someone in your corner that has your back. But for all the many benefits, there’s also the potential for a relationship to fall into a mundane habit-cycle devoid of the initial spark of excitement that drew you together. Breaking free of this relationship habit-cycle can put the zest back in your relationship, moving you from fizzling to sizzling.

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31 Movie Quotes to Inspire Relationship Goals

For decades, movies have provided inspiration to hang our hearts on. While there are tens of thousands of inspirational relationship examples in film, we chose our 31 favorite movie quotes that inspire #RelationshipGoals.

If these inspire you the way they did us, then click to discover how you can inspire your own #RelationshipGoals and become the woman men adore.


  • “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”

    When Harry Met Sally

    “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”

  • “If you live to be 100, I want to live to 100 minus one day so I never have to live without you.” – Winnie the Pooh

    Winnie the Pooh

    “If you live to be 100, I want to live to 100 minus one day so I never have to live without you.”

  • 3. “He looked at her the way all women want to be looked at by a man.” – The Great Gatsby

    The Great Gatsby

    “He looked at her the way all women want to be looked at by a man.”

  • 4. “Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?” – Meet Joe Black

    Meet Joe Black

    “Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?”

  • “Love is a song that never ends.” – Bambi

    Bambi

    “Love is a song that never ends.”

  • “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you and I’m home.” – Finding Nemo

    Finding Nemo

    “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you and I’m home.”

  • “My dream wouldn’t be complete without you in it.” – The Princess and the Frog

    The Princess and the Frog

    “My dream wouldn’t be complete without you in it.”

  • Sweet Home Alabama

    “Why do you want to marry me, anyhow? So I can kiss you anytime I want.”

  •  “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” – Moulin Rouge

    Moulin Rouge

    “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”

  •  “Any day spent with you is my favorite day.” – Winnie the Pooh

    Winnie the Pooh

    “Any day spent with you is my favorite day.”

  • “It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.” ~ Good Will Hunting

    Good Will Hunting

    “It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.”

  • “Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delay it for a while.” – Princess Bride

    Princess Bride

    “Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delay it for a while.”

  • “I’d rather die tomorrow than live a hundred years without knowing you.” – Disney’s Pocahontas

    Disney’s Pocahontas

    “I’d rather die tomorrow than live a hundred years without knowing you.”

  • “To me, you are perfect.” – Love Actually

    Love Actually

    “To me, you are perfect.”

  • “You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.” – Gone With the Wind

    Gone With the Wind

    “You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.”

  • “You’re the best thing I never knew I needed.” – The Princess and the Frog

    The Princess and the Frog

    “You’re the best thing I never knew I needed.”

  •  “I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.” ~ The Vow

    The Vow

     “I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.”

  • “You’re a beautiful woman. You deserve a beautiful life.” – Water for Elephants

    Water for Elephants

    “You’re a beautiful woman. You deserve a beautiful life.”

  • “It’s like, in that moment, the whole universe existed just to bring us together.” – Serendipity

    Serendipity

    “It’s like, in that moment, the whole universe existed just to bring us together.”

  • “To face the future with another, who means more than any other, is to be loved.” – The Rescuers

    The Rescuers

    “To face the future with another, who means more than any other, is to be loved.”

  • “I like you very much, just as you are.” – Bridget Jones’ Diary

    Bridget Jones’ Diary

    “I like you very much, just as you are.”

  • “You are my greatest adventure.” – The Incredibles

    The Incredibles

    “You are my greatest adventure.”

  • “You have bewitched me, body and soul.” – Pride and Prejudice

    Pride and Prejudice

    “You have bewitched me, body and soul.”

  • “You love me. Real, or not real? Real.” – The Hunger Games

    The Hunger Games

    “You love me. Real, or not real? Real.”

  • “We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.” – The Notebook

    The Notebook

    “We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.”

  • “You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed. Forever.” – Love & Other Drugs

    Love & Other Drugs

    “You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed. Forever.”

  • “How do you spell love? You don’t spell it, you feel it.” – Winnie the Pooh

    Winnie the Pooh

    “How do you spell love? You don’t spell it, you feel it.”

  • “So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard. We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.” ~ The Notebook

    The Notebook

    “So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard. We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.”

  • “It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were supposed to be together … and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home. .. only to no home I’d ever known … I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like … magic.” ~ Sleepless in Seattle

    Sleepless in Seattle

    “It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were supposed to be together … and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home. .. only to no home I’d ever known … I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like … magic.”

  • “Me? I’m scared of everything. I’m scared of what I saw, I’m scared of what I did, of who I am, and most of all, I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you.” – Dirty Dancing

    Dirty Dancing

    “Me? I’m scared of everything. I’m scared of what I saw, I’m scared of what I did, of who I am, and most of all, I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you.”

  • “If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together, there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we are apart, I’ll always be with you.” – Winnie the Pooh

    Winnie the Pooh

    “If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together, there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we are apart, I’ll always be with you.”

One common denominator in movies is how men experience women in a three-dimensional way. It’s visual, emotional, and often all five senses are involved. Interestingly, the more senses you involve with a man in real life, the more effortless the attraction becomes. 

To learn more about how you can make this effortless attraction work for you, click here.

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3 Things To Create More Intimacy This Valentine’s Day

What if this Valentine’s Day could be different? Instead of chocolate and candy hearts, how would it feel to give (and get) the gift of intimacy?

In the beginning, you feel that love connection and can’t seem to get enough of that special someone, but what about when you have been together for a while? Sometimes you need to find new ways to spark your emotional intimacy so that you can grow together on a deeper level. Here are a few simple ways to feel closer to your partner this Valentine’s Day (without just jumping to sex as the intimacy connector).

Massage One Another For a Few Minutes

Spending time touching one another- without it leading to sex- can really help grow your bond. Physical touch releases the hormone oxytocin, which gives you those romantic feelings of love. This can be a wonderful way to feel connected to your partner.

Drawing this experience out will help create a more relaxed and warm environment for the both of you. Whether you want to massage each other in silence, or simply discuss your day- you will end the night feeling much closer to one another.

Reminisce About the Beginning of Your Relationship

Sometimes just spending some time remembering the first time you met, or the first time you kissed, can really have a profound result. Just discussing those butterflies that you had can really cause all of those feelings to come flooding back. Sometimes we can forget about how thankful we are to have someone in our life, and how much we need and love them.

Remembering the past can be a great way to bring back a stronger sense of intimacy and connection. You can even continue the conversation by thinking about all of the things you want to do together in the future. Connecting your past memories, with a desire to make new memories, is an excellent way to strengthen your intimacy bond.

Gaze Into Their Eyes

It might seem like an uncomfortable thought for some people, but gazing into your partner’s eyes is an excellent way to trigger a deeper sense of intimacy. Just spending five minutes (yes, time it), staring into your loved one’s eyes, can have a surprising result for your intimacy.

When you look into your partner’s eyes, it helps you feel so much closer to them, and over time it will feel less and less uncomfortable. If you do feel uneasy about this, it can be a good sign that you need to work on the intimacy in your relationship. Once you become comfortable with lasting eye contact, it certainly shows a sincere connection and comfort with your partner.

These are some wonderful ways to grow closer to your partner this Valentine’s Day. Some people think that sex is the only way to feel intimate with someone, but that simply is not true at all.

There are many ways to truly grow your connection- ways which will help create a lasting bond in your relationship. Some women give and give thinking that will create a deep emotional connection. Sadly, it often makes a man feel a woman is simply convenient. Wouldn’t it be amazing to know your partner’s intimacy trigger so you could simply push those buttons again and again?

Welcome to RelationshipHeadquarters

Welcome to RelationshipHeadquarters, your source for understanding men and relationships, founded by Bob Grant, PLC.

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Bob Grant is a clinically trained relationship expert with over 20 years experience helping people foster and develop positive, supporting relationships. After spending more than 15 years in both a hospital and private practice settings, Bob Grant founded RelationshipHeadquarters.com in 2001 as a way to help women worldwide experience the same fulfillment his regular clients have been experiencing in his private practice. RelationshipHeadquarters.com now reaches both women and men in over 45 countries and growing.

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