Ideal Student:

Women seeking a long-term committed relationship and a step-by-step guide to making it happen.

This program is for you if:

• Do you always attract the kind of guy who doesn’t want a commitment?
• Are you frustrated at being rejected by the good men?
• Have you been in many relationships or dated many men who just aren’t right for you?
• Is it time to find a man and stop waiting time, money, and energy?

• Confidence (exudes power)
• Sense of Humor (fun-loving)
• Money (has wealth or earns a high income)
• Good looks
• Mystery, excitement, unpredictability (or “bad boy” qualities)
• Intelligence
• Sensitivity (caring, loving, thoughtful, sweet, romantic)
• Spirituality
• Family-Oriented (loves children, wants to have a family)
• Something else?

• … the No. 1 reason why most women are not able to find, attract and keep the man of their dreams — and what you can do about it so that you can finally find a wonderful man who wants to marry you

• …. how to never fear that you’ll end up with the wrong man — but instead have the confidence to know that you’ll find and choose the man who’s exactly right for you

• … why what you want and what you think you want in a man may be incompatible — and how knowing the difference will enable you to finally find your dream man who is ideal for you

A client of mine (whom I will call Susan) was 29 years old when she came to seek my help.  She wanted to get married, but no matter how many different men she dated, none of them led to marriage — and she was very frustrated.

Initially, I had to make her realize that she was contributing to her problem by dating only men that were “exciting” to her — and didn’t necessarily have the qualities that were important to her.  Was it any wonder that those relationships never ended up in marriage?  It took Susan a few months to accept the fact that her dream man might not appear to be her dream man upon the first encounter.

In the past, she had often dismissed most of her dates after just one encounter whenever she didn’t feel that “instant chemistry” with them.  I showed her a proven plan (see How to Find the Man of Your Dreams) that enabled her to zero in on the qualities she really wanted in a husband (instead of just the superficial qualities). 

She wanted a man to be strong, independent, and caring — which were qualities that none of the “exciting” men she used to date possessed. 

Over the next few months, her choice of men began to improve as she implemented the plan.  Slowly, she realized exactly what it meant to listen to her heart — and she finally met her dream man!  A few months later, I not only received a wedding invitation from her — but she asked me to walk her down the aisle!

…you have an ineffective pattern regarding your relationships with men.  Patterns don’t lie.

A pattern is a combination of behaviors, thoughts, emotions, actions, qualities, and tendencies forming a consistent arrangement that generally brings about a predictable result.

Just as there is a pattern in some teenagers that causes them to consume alcohol; a pattern in career people that causes them to find only bad jobs; a pattern that causes individuals to have anxiety in public speaking; so too, is there a pattern that causes women to be unsuccessful at finding their dream man or an ideal mate.

This pattern, which runs on auto-pilot, usually beneath the radar of your awareness, makes you unconsciously sabotage your deepest desire to find love. 

In February, Melissa J. wanted to quit dating altogether.  She was 37, had been dating continuously since she was 16 — and she was sick to death of the dating scene.  In the last 21 years, she’d had two boyfriends that lasted more than a year, and the rest lasted only a few weeks to a few months apiece.  She was so depressed because all her girlfriends had already gotten married and she was the only one who remained single.  And yet she dreaded dating yet another guy because she believed that all men were jerks and all the good ones were already taken.  She began believing the cruel joke that says, “It’s more likely for a single woman over 35 to be killed by terrorists than to be married.” 

While outwardly, Melissa maintained the attitude that there was something wrong with all men in general — deep inside, she felt there was something wrong with her.  “Why do I always attract the wrong kind of men?” she wondered.  It was only after she became aware of her self-sabotaging pattern (see How to Find the Man of Your Dreams) that she was able to replace it with an effective one.  Her new pattern created just a slight shift in her mindset — and yet the results were incredible. 

Within weeks of changing her pattern, she had a string of wonderful eligible men competing for her attention.  After dating a few, she quickly discovered that one of them, George M., was the real deal — the man of her dreams!  She began seeing George exclusively in May 2004 — and on Valentine’s Day 2005, 10 months after their first date, he proposed marriage and she happily accepted.

• A (learnable) ability is the most attractive attribute a woman can possess – more hypnotic and powerful than a pretty face or a sexy body. Hint: This has nothing to do with sex! (see page 65)

• How to activate a trigger residing in a man that will make him feel an overwhelming sensation of love towards you (see page 96)
• The powerful strategy that made a sought-after eligible man want to ask a woman to marry him after only 5 months of dating (see page 83)
• The SECRET WEAPON you can use to stir up a man’s passion and give you more power over him than you can imagine (see page 95-96)
• How to make a man feel that even though there are many women in the world, there is absolutely no woman like you (see page 106)
• The secret mindset that will make men sit up and take notice of you (see page 54)
• How to help the man of your dreams find you (see page 64)
• How to impress a man without really trying — A little-known way of behaving toward people that men find infinitely more appealing than being upbeat, positive or flirtatious (see page 65)
• How to give a man clues to let him know that you’re only interested in a serious, long-term relationship – and that you’re marriage material, not just someone to have fun with – while keeping his interest at its peak (see page 90)
• How to make a man think it was his idea to want to get married (see page 94)
• How to tell if a man is good for dating or good for marriage – it’s seldom both! (see page 26)
• The one quality that, if you possess it, will give you an immense sense of empowerment, which will in turn, draw the enraptured attention of men to you.  If you don’t have this, no matter how pretty, smart or successful you are, men will perceive something as missing in you — even if they can’t explain it.  (see page 55 – 56)
• How to set the tone for sexual intimacy — the 8 magic words you should tell him when he hints at having sex with you; this will magnify your value in his eyes, drive him wild and seriously consider spending his life with you.  Note:  My wife uttered these famous words to me when we were still dating, and I soon thereafter asked her to marry me.  (see page 89)
• How to elevate your value in a man’s eyes – and make him want to cherish you (see page 73)
• Why it’s very important to make a man feel that you do not expect him to fill all your emotional needs (see page 95)
• A powerful (but fun) 14-day exercise that is guaranteed to bring a fresh supply of available men into your life – takes only 10 to 15 minutes a day.  This will really open you up to someone new coming into your life – and most women ignore this golden opportunity (see page 46 – 47)
• The subtle method you can use to appear approachable and inviting to a man — without looking cheap or easy (see page 61)

• How to make a man emotionally dependent on you – in as little as 2 dates (see page 82)
• How long should your first phone conversation last? Longer than this and you blow all chances of keeping his interest at its peak (see page 73)
• The only goal you need to have for a first date – ignore this and you could be missing out on the love of your life (see page 68)
• How to dress in ways that a man would find most attractive — instead of dressing to impress other women  (see page 59)
• The one thing you must convey on a first date – and the things you should never share (most women get this one wrong!)
• The kind of behavior you should have on a first date that will make you instantly interesting to a man who’s worthy of you – and will repel men who are not desirable (see page 70)
• How much to disclose on your first and second date – more than this and you’ll be setting a precedent that will be difficult to correct later (see page 78)  What you should never disclose on your first or second date (see page 80)
• A powerful third-date strategy that’s guaranteed to stir up passion in a man more than anything (see page 82)
• What a man must see you be willing to do before he’ll want to make you a permanent part of his life (see page 81)
• How a certain dating activity causes chemicals to be released in the brain that overrides your rationality when it comes to choosing a man; keeps you from pacing the relationship long enough to know if he’s really your dream man or not (see page 87)
• How to end a date with him wanting more of you – and guarantee that he’ll think of you often after the date has ended (see page 72)
• How to pace a relationship, keep it from overheating too soon and avoid burning it out before it’s had time to blossom (see page 81)
• How to use a man’s innate response to “voids” in order to make your relationship progress faster into marriage – while making him think it was his idea (see page 102)
• The telltale sign that gives a man the idea that you’re not interested in him – even if you’re very interested!  Make sure you’re not doing this or else you’ll blow your chances with him.  (see page 71)

• 3 unique places to meet men where there is a great ratio of single men to single women – and the men are usually pre-screened

• How to use the online dating sites to find exactly the kind of man you want, weed out the losers, as well as lazy and unattractive candidates — without making yourself appear shallow and self-centered (see page 43)
• Why being involved in singles groups may not be the best way to meet men – and what’s a better alternative (see page 37)

Jennifer was 28 years old and just coming out of a divorce when she came to me for counseling.  After years of living with someone who constantly berated her, she began to view herself as the flawed, undesirable person her ex-husband told her she was.  Three months after the divorce, she began to develop a tremendous fear that she would never find a man who would love her for who she was.

The first thing I did was to teach her how not to allow her fears to make her feel lonely, worthless or defective (see page 9 of How to Find the Man of Your Dreams), pointing out that the way she viewed herself was of utmost importance in finding a man who would want to marry her.  Then, I guided her towards discovering what she really wanted in a man (see page 55) — and equipped her to be prepared once he showed up in her life (see Chapters 5 through 7).

At first, she did not believe the plan would work — but she stuck with it anyway.  After 5 months, she not only had a clear idea of what kind of man she was looking for, but this time she was also convinced that it would happen.  Then one day, she met a man who seemed perfect for her — except that he didn’t satisfy one of the criteria she had established as her “non-negotiable” requirements in a man.  She dared to remain true to her heart and not make compromises.  Eventually, she ended that relationship — even though she feared she might be making a mistake.

A week later, she met a wonderful man at her church with all the qualities she wanted, including the fact that he was tall (which was important to her).  They started dating, and within 9 months, they were engaged to be married.  They sent me a wedding invitation that I keep in my drawer together with other invitations of all my clients whose dreams have come true.

Think for a moment of the amount of time it takes for you to plan a one-week vacation — and the amount of money it takes to pay for it.  It’s quite a bit of both time and money, isn’t it?  And that’s just for a vacation that will last one week of your life.

By comparison, it surprises me to see the lack of planning women put forth into finding the man of their dreams — when finding their dream man will affect their entire life!

Finding and attracting the man of your dreams is something that you need to approach in exactly the same way you would approach any other important goal in your life — with a plan.  As I mentioned earlier, I’ve developed a proven plan which is featured in my new e-Book titled How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.

Now, consider this …

What is the value of replacing your ineffective pattern regarding relationships — and immediately having a pool of wonderful eligible men that you can choose from?

How would your life change when you not only find and attract your dream man — but also have an enduring and blissful relationship with him?

What price can you put on not having to go through the tedious trial-and-error process of finding your dream man — but instead having a step-by-step plan to effortlessly attract him into your life?

What is the value of never feeling lonely or defective again — and never fearing you’ll end up with the wrong man? 

Clearly, the ability to find the man of your dreams is a priceless skill — one that’s worth at least the money you’d spend on a one-week vacation, don’t you think?

How much would you spend for a one-week vacation?

$3,000?  $2,000?  $1,000?

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams won’t even cost you anywhere near what you would spend on a vacation.  It won’t cost you $100.  No, not even $50.  Your investment in finding, attracting and having an enduring and blissful relationship with your dream man — is only…

…. $49

That’s less than half the price for a one-night stay at a deluxe hotel in any vacation destination!

Your investment in this life-changing e-Book is just $49 — which is just a small fraction of the $395 that I charge for a 45-minute counseling session, in which I could cover only a tiny part of what my book contains!

I am so confident that you’ll be overjoyed with the terrific results and lifelong benefits you get from following the plan I reveal in How to Find the Man of Your Dreams that I’m willing to have you try it at my risk. 

Go ahead and get your hands on How to Find the Man of Your Dreams today without risking a penny.  Implement my proven plan and see with your own eyes how dramatically your life will change.  If you don’t absolutely love the life-changing information you’ll find in my e-Book — or if you’re not 100% satisfied for any reason — simply send me an e-mail within 7 weeks of your purchase, and I’ll refund your entire purchase price.  No questions asked!  

Own “How to Find the Man of Your Dreams” today.

Some women meet their dream man spontaneously — by accident, sheer luck or providence.  But I have to tell you … this happens rarely.

Then, there are those women who meet and marry their dream man by taking an active role and following a proven plan.  I’ve seen this latter phenomenon happen with predictable regularity among my female clients.

How about you?  Would you rather wait for your dream man to fall into your lap by some stroke of luck — or would you rather take positive, constructive action to compel your dream man to arrive at your doorstep?

If you’d rather do it the old-fashioned way and wait for him to show up, then prepare yourself for a long wait.  But if you’d rather pursue your dream man the way you pursue any worthwhile goal in your life — that is, by following a step-by-step proven plan, then you simply cannot be without How to Find the Man of Your Dreams.

Can you afford to waste any more time getting less than the complete happiness you deserve?

For your sake, I certainly hope you take me up on my offer today.  Otherwise, the months and years will pass you by and you’ll still lonely, frustrated or desperate — wishing for your dream man to come around.

Let me ask you one final question:  How would you feel if your dream man were to walk into your life, fall in love with you, marry you and promise you his undying devotion?

Now you don’t have to imagine what it would feel like but actually experience it for yourself.

Wishing you the relationship of your dreams,

P.S.  When you find your dream man — as I’m certain you will — please don’t forget to send me your wedding invitation.  I may not always have the time to attend every one of the many weddings I’m invited to, but I’m always thrilled to receive one when I’ve helped someone get engaged or married.  Send the invitation to me at the following address:  Bob Grant, P.L.C., 1640 Powers Ferry Road, Building 17, Suite 375, Marietta, Georgia 30067.

P.P.S.  I’m often asked the question:  Can a woman with children find the man of her dreams?

My answer is “Yes, absolutely!”  Consider the following story of one of my female clients. ↓

Allison was a tall, slender woman whose marriage ended because her husband told her that he was in love with another woman.  Needless to say, she was so devastated and heartbroken that she could hardly function.  To make matters worse, she had 4 children — all under the age of 10.  “Who’s going to want to marry a woman with 4 children?” she asked me.  It’s a sentiment echoed by many divorced or widowed women with children.

As we began to craft her future, I must say there were more trying days than happy ones initially.  Yet, in spite of it all, she remained determined.

After discovering exactly the type of man she really wanted, it became easier for her to take a chance on men in spite of the heartbreak she had previously suffered — and without worrying about making a mistake.  She also found it much easier to start dating again, although she initially felt apprehensive about it because she hadn’t dated in ages. 

In less than a year, she met another single parent who had a young daughter that was the same age as her own son.  Shortly afterward, they began dating and I lost touch with her until 10 months later when she made an appointment to see me.  She sat down in my office and extended her left hand to reveal a beautiful diamond engagement ring.  She thanked me for showing her that in spite of all she had been through, she could still find her dream man.