You Don’t Have To Try So Hard

In the 16 years that I’ve been doing relationship counseling, I’ve rarely come across a female client to whom I’ve had to say, “Try harder” when it comes to relationship building.  In fact, most of my female clients try so hard that they find themselves exhausted.

Legendary coach, Vince Lombardi, once said:  “Practice doesn’t make perfect.  Perfect practice makes perfect.”

The problem women have is NOT the lack of effort.  It’s that they’re only trying what they KNOW – and what they know usually consists of ineffective methods.

It doesn’t take a genius to know that no matter how hard you try at practicing ineffective methods of getting through to your partner or repairing your relationship, it won’t work.  The harder you try, the more you end up hurting yourself and your relationship.

What you need are EFFECTIVE STRATEGIES that have been PROVEN to work so that you can go about building and strengthening your relationship effortlessly.

I say this because often women (my clients) are surprised.

So you see, you don’t have to “try hard” to keep your man interested or keep the fire burning in your relationship.

All you need are a few proven strategies that are so effective at melting a man’s heart, you’ll regret not having found out about them sooner.

Bob Grant, L.P.C.

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