So I’m surfing the internet and come across this.  Tell me what’s your first reaction? Honestly, what did you think when you saw the guy with his hands in the air as proud as a peacock? Here’s why this is important for you, it’s not that every guy is as trashy as this one, but no matter what guy you’ve got your eye on always remember this….a man will take as much as you let him. When I tell my clients, “Never let a man take you for granted,” it’s not that I think he’ll want to have sex in public. What happens is that if you give more than you get then you’ll start getting desperate. You’ll do anything just to keep him, even something really degrading, because anything will seem better than being alone.