An Energetic Shift That Makes You Instantly More Attractive

When you’re with a man, are you looking to him as HOLDING something that you want? Like he’s holding the key to YOUR happiness or “lovable-ness”?

Next time you’re with a man, really notice – when you look at him, do you really see HIM, or do you only see what you WANT from him?

Notice if you find yourself thinking about how much happier you’d be if your love life was “on track.”

See if you can catch yourself when you’re looking to a man to make everything – including YOU – feel complete.

There are many reasons why we look to others to fix what’s wrong in our lives. Sometimes the unmet needs from our childhood are so great that we’re constantly looking to someone else to fulfill them on an unconscious level.

The problem is, these needs often run so deep that another person would not be capable of fulfilling them for us – so we need to learn how to meet those needs for ourselves.

Or, you may be so busy trying to please others all the time that you never learned how to make YOURSELF happy.

If you’re anything like I was before I turned my love life around – when you’re with a man, you may find yourself frantically trying everything you can to make him love you and “close the deal” so that your life will finally be complete.

It’s this energy that pushes a man away. No matter how hard you try to “play it cool”, men are extremely sensitive to this and will feel it in your vibe.

This needy vibe will either repel a man from the beginning, or keep the relationship from moving forward – where the connection just isn’t strong enough to make him fall in love and feel devoted to you forever.

The good news is, creating this kind of attraction is SO much easier than you think! It involves getting out of that mindset where a man holds the key to your happiness or your “lovable-ness” – and putting that key in your OWN hands.

It’s about discovering what it is that would make you feel happy or complete, and learning how to meet those needs for yourself. In other words, you want to stop waiting for a man to fulfill your dreams and start making your OWN dreams come true.

Once you do this, the man you’re with now will start to see you in a completely new way – or if you’re single, the right kind of men will start showing up!

To get started, write down all the things that you’ve been waiting to do or accomplish until your love life is “on track.” Write out a plan to start making these dreams come true for yourself right now.

Waiting for your love life to improve before accomplishing these goals may actually be what’s holding you back in your relationships.

Getting your masculine energy in gear for yourself this way – rather than using it to “make something happen” in dating and relationships – will make all the difference in the world for you.

It will create the space for you to be in your feminine energy when you’re with a man, which will make him feel incredibly attracted and connected to you.

Once you become the kind of woman who knows how to make HERSELF happy, you’ll start attracting the kind of men who want to make you happy too!

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SEX & intimacy: Tap Into Hiis Deepest Desires

Sex can be so much more than just a physical act. Learn how a man relates to sex before, during, and after the moment so you can experience intense passion in your physical and emotional relationship.

$49 - Video + Workbook

BEYOND BONDING: your happily EVER AFTER

How can an already-amazing relationship avoid becoming just another broken romance? Go beyond bonding and learn the work it’ll take for you and your partner to live happily ever after.

$49 - Video + Workbook

WHAT'S HUSBANDS can't resist: HE'LL WANT TO MARRY YOU ALL OVER AGAIN

Marriage is just the beginning of a lifelong romance. Learn what makes your husband tick, find out things about him that he probably doesn’t realize about himself, and be the wife he can’t resist.

$49 - Ebook

LONG DISTANCE love guide: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE DISTANCE APART

What happens when you know this is the right man for you, but he’s not right beside you? Make long distance love really work by anticipating the challenges and avoiding the pitfalls.

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About the Author

Bob Grant, L.P.C.
Bob Grant is a Clinically Trained Relationship Expert who’s been working with women for over since 1997. He helps women create successful, satisfying, and fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men. Click here to learn more about Bob.

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