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This is a very different feeling and “vibe” than chasing a man down, trying to impress HIM and prove to him that you’re a great catch.
One of the most common mistakes women make when it comes to attracting the man they want is making it too easy for him. There’s this common fear that if we don’t make things easy for a man – by always being available to him and taking an active role in moving the relationship forward – he’s going to lose interest.
Making it too easy for a man looks like always initiating contact with him, asking him out, driving to him for dates, paying on dates, offering to help him with something if he hasn’t specifically asked, holding space open for him in your schedule if he hasn’t asked you out yet, playing “therapist” or “counselor” by helping him figure something out if he hasn’t asked for your help, accepting “crumbs” from a man, and tolerating bad behavior or anything that doesn’t feel good to you.
Pretending to be “hard to get” will NOT increase your value in a man’s eyes. In fact, pretending ANYTHING will come across as needy, insecure, and desperate to a man.
Playing “hard to get” might get you a short-term result, but the only way to permanently increase your value in a man’s eyes is to truly increase your value in your OWN eyes first. If you skip this step, he’ll be able to pick up in your vibe that this is all about HIM – which will weaken his attraction to you and DECREASE your value in his eyes.
Many women are afraid that increasing their value in their own eyes will come across as self-centered or “difficult” and scare a man off – but the opposite is actually true! The truth is, a man CAN’T fall in love with a woman who doesn’t love herself, take care of herself, and put her OWN heart first.
This also isn’t about “cold” or ignoring a man – you want to be warm, open, and receptive to him when he shows up.
This is what will inspire his masculine need to pursue you and win you over. If you can keep this “high-value woman” vibe going during the courtship of dating and throughout the entire relationship, everything else will fall into place.
Once you get this vibe down and it starts to feel more natural – men will feel irresistibly attracted to you, and all kinds of things will start to organically shift in the right direction!
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