I must admit that I have been pleasantly surprised at the popularity of “How Do I Get Him Back.” I knew there was a need but I didn’t know how great it was until now. While many women have taken advantage of my FREE 15-minute coaching session, some have not and have emailed me that after a “few days” the plan isn’t working for them.
It appears that some women are hoping to find a magical phrase that they can say to their ex which will cause him to come running back into their arms, instantly. I can tell you the only phrase that will come close to that is, “I will have sex with you whenever you want, without you having to commit to me.” That doesn’t sound too appealing, does it?
If you are one of these women, I need to tell you something. I know you don’t want to hear this but the truth of the matter is that it’s going to take TIME to win your ex back. I cannot tell you how many women give in to their fears and impulsively end up doing the very things I warn tell them not to do (ie. sending an email, letter, emotional phone call, etc..).
How much time, you ask? Usually between 2 and 6 weeks. Sometimes less and sometimes more because words are not as effective on men as they are on women. Words only work when the right phrase is said at the perfect time. I want to make certain that their ex FEELs as well as hears their words. I don’t like to leave anything to chance.
For those who aren’t sure what they should do, I’ve created a FREE guide to help women identify if they are making any of the mistakes that drive men off. This way you can decide if the man you want back is worth the effort.
Wishing you the Relationship of Your Dreams!
Bob Grant, L.P.C. “The Relationship Doctor”