Most of the time I talk with women. Not because that was my goal when I started out, but because women seem to be more interested in understanding their relationships, self-improvement, etc.
Yet, every so often a man would walk into my office…and actually want to come back. What I found with most guys is they aren’t as interested in the process of therapy per se, what they really want is a tool that they can use.
It has to be practical, and something that can be used instantly without having to learn a complex theory.
So with that in mind, if you’re a man reading this I’m going to give you a tip that if you can master it, you’ll have great success with women. Ready? Here it is…
“When you’re in a relationship with a woman, if you’re not willing to let her influence you on the things you don’t happen to think are important…but are important to her, then you’re going to be miserable.”
I know, now what you expected (or hoped I’d say) but hear me out. The woman you love (or will love) wants to know that she can influence you. When a man shares his power with a woman, she feels important and special.
Here’s the part you’ll like – when she feels special…you’ll really, really like it. I promise.