The following information is for women who want to get married to their Mr. Right, if this is you please continue reading and enjoy.
So what’s the correlation between a Break and Enter and Dating?
When dating you need to protect your heart.
Guys date to either find their Dream Girl to have a serious relationship with leading to marriage or a casual relationship with their Casual Girl.
Having standards and boundaries when dating will let you identify at all stages of the relationship if you are the Dream Girl or The Casual Girl.
Think of a guy that sees you as a Casual Girl like a robber assessing which house to rob. He will look at the house from the outside, he will check out the locks on the doors and windows and figure out how hard the house will be to rob.
Guys will test you consciously and subconsciously to see how much he can manipulate/control you (how good your security is).
If he can see you last minute, it is like the front door lock is broken.
If you text him first and text him a lot, it is like the windows have been left open.
If you sleep with him too soon, it is like the back door has been left ajar.
He will break and enter, steal your possessions, and off he goes. This is the same as to what he will do with your heart, see you for a while, take advantage of what he can, steal your heart, and leave.
However, if the guy thinks of you as his Dream Girl and:
If you set and enforce boundaries from the beginning, you’ll quickly discover if this man is seeking a Dream Girl or a Casual Girl. If you set and enforce standards, he is going to think of you like ‘Fort Knox’ a high-quality house that has value and he is going to want to purchase that house not rob it.
When a guy sees that you have these standards and boundaries and he is only interested in breaking and entering and not looking for love he will leave ‘Fort Knox’ and move onto a house with broken locks and open windows.
If a guy is interested in having a serious relationship with you he wants the girl that knows her value and protects herself by not allowing a man to get away with bad behaviour.
There is no point in making things easy for a guy so you have a ‘boyfriend’ or someone to date because you are lonely.
Wait for the right guy who sees you as his Dream Girl, he will appreciate your value.
Playing Hard To Get isn’t playing at all; it is protecting your heart from a thief.
