If You Want More Sex, Do the Dishes

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This one if for the guys. Especially the married ones. It may not make sense to you but many women have told me they tend to agree with this research. Kinda common sense, but it gives you a different perspective on how women think. Not all women, but a lot of them.

Here's the link The term for this new insight is Chore-Play. Guys, remember it's all about what works, not whether we think it makes sense to us.

What Happened to the Real Men?

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Every now and then a reader of "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave," will send me an e-mail complaining that my book suggests that women should become subservient to men. They speak of equality, and not allowing a man to ever take advantage of them, etc. They give me the impression that a man being chivalrous is somehow a bad thing?


Kathleen Parker, Columnist and Author, believes that such an attitude in our society is actually robbing men (and women) of the kind of manhood that most women crave. Katherine believes that most women do desire a brave soul that would go out of his way to protect and cherish the woman of his choice. I agree with Ms. Parker. In the name of equality, many women are asking for something that looks good on the surface. However, a closer look reveals that looks can be deceiving.


Equality is great in a business setting, or among peers. Unfortunately, it rarely works too well in a romantic relationship, because the very nature of that type relationship is based on compliments - not equals. A woman's softness, not her toughness, inspires a man to be brave. This does not mean a woman is required to be a doormat. It just indicates that if you want a man who is protective and strong, he must feel that you need him. Otherwise, he will treat you as an equal. He will respect you, but you won't feel cherished.

"Men Love Long Hair" - Advice from a Woman?

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Here's the quote from the owner/founder of The Millionaires Club. It' always interesting when a woman points this out. She also said this, ""Men have to learn to be men. Women have to learn to be women. The feminization of men has made them metrosexual, lazy or both."
Here's the full article here.

Women Haven't Adapted to Casual Sex

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I can sometimes do without the almost religious fervor of evolution this and evolution that, but the findings are quite interesting. I wonder if women just weren't designed for one night stands?

See for yourself.

I especially found it interesting that quality seems to be more important than quantity.

Women's Fashion for Men

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This is just one man’s opinion, but you’ll find his opinion is more universal than not. Oh, and the stuff he doesn’t like, take that with a grain of salt.

Fashion Tips for Women

Marriage Advice for the Ages

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Some advice is predictable (better communication), some is fun (sex is good for a marriage) and some is just simple. In fact, sometimes the answer to a successful marriage can be found in focusing on what happens day to day between a couple.

It isn’t the big things that matter so much; rather it’s how you treat your spouse daily that makes a husband devoted for life.

Getting Him Back

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If you have just had a relationship end, then you are most likely feeling overwhelmed (assuming you want him back) and perhaps a bit desperate. Nearly every day my office staff gets several phone calls from women who want to speak with me - RIGHT NOW. They don’t mean to be pushy, they’re just scared, and they feel that if they wait too long then they might lose him forever.

Of course the fastest thing to do would be to hire someone immediately, preferable a professional who has spent years working with individuals and couples. If you need to speak with someone – RIGHT NOW – then here are some resources:

www.askmarsvenus.com (The original Mars – Venus guy)

www.collinspartners.com (Very good reputation)

www.relationshipheadquarters.com (Yours Truly)

But for some the cost of hiring someone they don’t know can be a bit intimidating or perhaps you just want some quick insight. In that case, it might be a better idea to simply read some articles (and they’re free) and see if any of this advice might be helpful to your situation.

Here are some articles:

www.romanceclass.com

www.cupidsreviews.com/Getting-Ex-Back.html

ezinearticles.com/5-Ways-to-Get-Your-Ex-Back

ezinearticles.com/Getting-Back-Together-Advice

If these don’t answer your question it’s probably because these like most articles they are often written in a general and brief manner. As an author I can attest to the fact that it’s hard to describe how to get someone back into your life in one page or less which leads to the next suggestion. Buy a book. It’s less than hiring someone and often they come with a money back guarantee.

Here are some options:

www.magicofmakingup.com

www.howdoIgethimback.com

www.retrievealover.com

www.winbacklove.com

These are some suggestions. It isn’t meant to give you the answer because your situation is unique to you. The idea is to give you some resources so that you can decide which are best for your situation.

The Eligible-Bachelor Paradox

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Yes, I do agree that women are more in control of the process of selecting a mate than most would admit. However, what they fail to understand is that for those women who know how to captivate a man, even in an age when there appears to be less quality choices, all that is required is one man. Just one that can take your breath away.
I've had clients who were widowed and then remarried and not a one of them ever said that they "settled." Why is it that so many single women can't get married the first time when these widowed individuals (some in their 50's) can find love? Perhaps it has more to do with our unconscious actions?

What Husbands Can't Resist

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First, sorry for the long delay in posts. Our website is being completely redesigned and that has entailed more work than I imagined.

Second, our newest book, “What Husband’s Can’t Resist,” also took longer than expected at the editors chopping block but the results were worth it (I believe).

Third, we are expecting triplets (as in 3 boys, wow) so that’s been a bit of a task to prepare everything for them also.

O.K., that’s enough about me, here after it’s all about relationships and men!

What Am I Doing Wrong With Men?

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I came across this post, what am I doing wrong, and it sounded similar to so many emails I get every week. Doctor Love Coach didn't want to make any guesses without more information and I can appreciate her response. There could be a dozen different things this woman is "doing wrong" and she probably does need more information before making any suggestions.

I, however, get this type of email every week, so I'll gladly tell you what I think she might be doing that is contributing to her frustration.

Dear Frustrated Single and 35

1) Stop telling these men about your intentions. You're 35 years old and single. Nearly every man on the planet knows that a single 35 year old woman probably wants to get married and most likely have children.

2) You aren't crazy. A lot of men are afraid of making a mistake by "picking" the wrong woman to be their wife. To overcome this fear you need to learn how to captivate a man by demonstrating value. It must appear to him that he has caught you, not that he needs to "settle down" and get married.

3) If you're having sex with these men, stop. If these men aren't motivated enough to pursue marriage when you're having sex with them, then is there anything else you could offer to persuade them into matrimony? Exactly what bigger gift can you give besides your body??? Stop giving them access to your heart, mind and soul until they commit to you for life. It's a fair trade.

Is Marriage for White People Only?

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When I first saw this article it obviously seemed racist but after reading it there appears to be some truth to it. If you want to know why I do this for a living, this article is a good starting place. How can people just give up so quickly and say that this is a trend and it's only going to get worse.

Here's the article.

Now, does this apply to everyone? No it doesn't and it certain isn't limited to one race. Yet because of this pattern, it unfortunately falls on women to do what many of these men will not do, which is grow up.

How to do this you ask? Here's a good starting place.

Living together before Marriage???

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This topic has been debated since the dawn of Women's liberation. What's sad is that usually the argument is only between those who say it is and isn't morally wrong. Nothing wrong with that discussion but there is more to this question than simply each person having their own opinion.

The truth is that women who move in with a man are playing a man's game. It isn't just that it's morally wrong, which, by religious standards it is, but it decreases the likelihood that the ensuing marriage will last.

Here's something to think about if you're considering moving in with your man:

Living together Before Marriage?

3 Things Men Can't Resist

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Most women don't realize just how deeply men feel. This research, while not all encompassing, does confirm what some experts have been saying about men.
The truth is that when a man is properly motivated, he will do almost anything for a woman.

Here's the link: What Men Will Do For Romance

3 Signs He's Interested in You

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Sign #1: He makes Good Eye Contact

Since guys are visual, it goes without saying that they stare at women whom they find attractive. This is significant because, as a general rule of thumb, men tend to avoid prolonged eye contact because of its threatening nature (think Alpha Male stuff).

In addition.....

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The Man of Your Dreams is Here!

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After months of "getting is just right" I am thrilled to release the third book in a collection for women entitled "How to Find the Man of Your Dreams." My staff has told me that this is one of the most frequent request we receive and until now, we had nothing to offer them.

As with all my other books, this one comes with a FREE 15-minute coaching session and a money back guarantee. Please feel free to ask questions if you like and it is my hope that it proves to be as helpful as the previous two.