Maybe Marriage Isn’t For You
I found this article online. Actually someone posted it on Facebook. I assumed that it would be from a Progressive angle saying that marriage was old fashion, etc…
Instead I was reminded of why I got married.
Are you quietly struggling in your marriage? Do you feel like your husband just doesn’t love you anymore? It seems like no matter how hard you try, nothing’s working. You can’t find a way to connect with him.
If you’re like most wives, you probably do NOT worry so much about whether you’ll stay married to your husband or eventually get divorced. Instead, you care more about Continue reading Relationship Advice for Married Women
Years ago, there was a therapist I worked with named Susan. Susan told me she went to a seminar that a friend of ours named Steve was giving.
Since she thought she may want to do similar seminars in the future about marriage, she wanted to see Continue reading What You Call Him, He Will Become
Understanding the Secret of Scarcity
One of the great lessons of love is known as “the scarcity factor.” Plain and simple: people tend to want Continue reading Does Your Man Truly Value You?
A large part of my practice is made up of people interested in relationship advice. Not really by design (I started out working with teenagers), it just sort of worked out that way. Most often when someone comes in they want to know Continue reading Why Relationships are Difficult
Why do men struggle with commitment?
This question about the tendency in men to find it hard to commit seems to surface over and over again from women all around the world. If I could identify in a few simple strokes of the keyboard on a page of my site the answer to this question, I would be Continue reading He Never Knew What CommitMEANT
If there was one part of my job that I could do without, it is watching couples spiral down the path to divorce. While most couples I see don’t end up getting a divorce, there is that small percentage who are so filled with resentment that either one, or in some instances both of them, has already decided the marriage is over. Continue reading Divorce Recovery
I had a friend who was getting married to her long-time partner. They had lived together for a number of years and owned property together. It seemed that marriage would simply perfect what they had – make it permanent. Continue reading Pre-Marriage Counseling: Why Would You Bother?
As a therapist, I regularly counsel women who are suffering from a broken heart. They tearfully tell me how much they want to save their relationship and yet their their fear often causes Continue reading What Not To Do If Your Partner Leaves You and You Want Another Chance
Is Marriage for White People Only?
When I first saw this article it obviously seemed racist but after reading it there appears to be some truth to it. If you want to know why I do this for a living, this article is a good starting place. How can people just give up so quickly and Continue reading Is Marriage for White People Only?